Carnival of Homeschooling and other topics

Week 38 is hosted at The Thinking Mother. Check out the posts from homeschoolers about the blogosphere.

And because I don’t have enough email, I’ve joined Heart-N-HomeBooknook, a new yahoo group for moms like me. It’s a book discussion group and we begin reading Oct.1, so if you are inclined to read along with us, there is still time to get your books. I say books because you have a choice of what you would like to read from parenting, Christian living, fiction and homeschooing.

I’m going with Great Expectations by Charles Dickens and I may chime in on Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis. I’ve read the Lewis work before (highly recommended), but can you believe this English major has never read Dickens? I know, shame on me. This is my chance to fix that wrong.

Hope you will join in the fun.

Edited to add: I’ve been slowly plowing through Teacher Man by Frank McCourt. It’s no Angela’s Ashes, which had me reading non-stop for the two days it took me to read it, and, shhh, don’t tell anyone, I may quit Teacher Man halfway through. It’s not the writing, it’s the topic of the public high school that’s not all that exciting to me. I hate giving up on a book. I only did it once. I think I’ll keep that story for another day.

Recently read

How’s that for a lame title? I can’t think of anything witty, clever or more obvious. I do like the aliteration though. Other than that, it’s rather bland.

Anyway, the books. Most came from the library. If not for the library, my credit card be hard hit and Doc would be breathing fire. He keeps insisting we pay bills. Bills? More lameness. Money is for books.

And chocolate. Coffee, too.

Bills. B-O-R-I-N-G.

Oops, sorry. Distracted again. Books recently read: A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith, Leave Me Alone, I’m Reading by Maureen Corrigan, The Secret Garden by Frances Hodges Burnett and My Side of the Mountain by Jean Craighead George.

Smith’s novel of growing up in turn-of-the-century Brooklyn was one of those classics I always wanted to read, yet it never seemed to be at the top of the reading pile. How many of us had the same experience as Francie, the novel’s book-loving heroine?

From that time on, the world was hers for the reading. She would never be lonely again, never miss the lack of intimate friends. Books became her friends and there was one for every mood. There was poetry for quiet companionship. There was adventure when she tired of quiet hours. There would be love stories when she came into adolescence and when she wanted to feel a closeness to someone she could read a biography. On that day when she first knew she could read, she made a vow to read one book a day as long as she lived.

Thus the power of books. (And I swear I never read A Tree Grows in Brooklyn before naming my blog books are our friends. The orgins of the blog title is a story for another day.)

Leave Me Alone, I’m Reading is a book about books and reading. No surprise there.

I checked out The Secret Garden for Susan thinking she would enjoy it, but she’s uninterested, even with the lovely color illustrations this version has. So I read it. I’d heard wonderful praise for the story before, but up until now, I’d never read it for myself. Such a beautiful story; I enjoyed it, getting weepy in all the appropriate parts.

My Side of the Mountian was a purchase for Peter. He’s not capable of reading it yet, but I knew if I could get him to sit still long enough, he would enjoy the storyline. I began reading it to him and, he liked it, but he’s is not clamoring for the rest.

So, just like with Susan’s book, I read it for myself.

I remember reading Mountian as a girl and wanting to be just like the hero Sam. Needless to say, I was a tomboy and living alone in the woods inside a tree and training a falcon was my idea of the high life. It’s still appealing all these years later.

Third child

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Here it’s the second week of homeschooling. Already I’m doubting I can do this without pulling out large amounts of hair after going completely gray.

I know I’ve complained about Edmund and his ways before, but he really is the bane of the household. I love him, I really do. He has eyes the color of a Hershey’s Kiss, an easy grin and can be quick to offer an affectionate hug. He’s a clever boy.

Having said all that, does it make me a bad mother to tell you he can be a nuisance and difficult to get along with? Poor Edmund. He’s the third wheel in Susan and Peter’s tight clique. The older two play so well together and I’m constantly telling them to stop ignoring their brother. Everyone is happy for a bit, until Edmund feels slighted, then he retaliates with toy throwing, screaming and other obnoxious behavior.

All of this spills over into my teaching time. Edmund dislikes being alone in his room, so he comes into the kitchen where I am with my student and, well, I think you get the idea. Someone ends up in tears and today it was me.

I’d have him spend more time with his younger sister, but I would have to watch him closely, and that is tough to do when homeschooling another child. (Speaking of Lucy, her latest trick is to climb onto the kitchen table. Plus she’s made it clear she doesn’t care for being told No. At least she still naps twice a day so there is relief for a while. )

I wish I had never stopped schooling this summer because getting back into the routine is hard. I don’t mind taking the time out of my day to sit with my school-aged children to instruct them on their lessons. I’d just like to do it without the disruptions.

I’ve tried having Edmund sit with us without success. The boy is too distractive.

I hate that I feel this way. I miss those days when Susan was only five and it was easy to accomplish a lesson without having to battle a boy. I hate that someone is going to read this and snicker, “Ah-ha! See, you need to put those children into school.”

But I’m a stubborn Irish gal with the red hair to prove it. I’m determined to overcome the pesky preschooler. Can I strap him to the chair and stuff his mouth with cotton? Eh, I’m only kidding.

Maybe.