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Children are not ducklings

By Monica Brand, 30 March, 2009, No Comment

I’m at New Jersey Moms Blog today with thoughts about motherhood and finding encouragement in a very unlikely place – a department store.

New Jersey Moms Blog doesn’t get a lot of comments, so please leave one, especially if you have something of interest to contribute. And I suspect you do. Thanks, gang. Enjoy your day with your non-ducks!

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Thoughts on inside play: my latest at NJ Moms

By Monica Brand, 18 December, 2008, No Comment

This is just a gentle look at my children interacting together and me the mommy-on-wall. I must say, I send my best mommy thoughts and tales to New Jersey Moms Blog.

At least, I believe they are worthy of sharing. Could be that I’m completely off. I’ll let you be the judge.

The post is Wintertime play.

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New Jersey Moms Blog launch party

By Monica Brand, 16 November, 2008, 17 Comments

A mini Blogher conference, that’s exactly what it was. Or what I imagine a women’s mini blogging conference would be like, because it’s not like I’ve actually been to anything remotely bloggy before. It was a micro-conference. (Ha. I’m so clever. Feel free to use that.)

I met Emily, Liz, Fiona, Suezette, Stacey, Lynnette, Amber, Jill, Vanessa, Lois, and Jennifer, all for the first time after following them on Twitter and reading their personal blogs and posts on New Jersey Moms Blog. Mary Fran and Kristie, both of the new Philly Moms Blog, were there too. So much fun putting names to real, living persons with personalities beyond the computer screen.

I LOVED IT!!

Sorry to shout, but oh my goodness, that’s exactly how excited I was walking into that party Saturday night. To talk blogging this, blogging that and not have to stop and translate to the odd person out (Ahem. Husband: I am referring to YOU.) To chat with a group of women that share a common interest, a passion, and maybe a complete craziness for living a portion of life online for anyone to Google.

Such a happy feeling.*

We wasted no time jumping right into it. We discussed blogging, Twitter, podcasting, Blogher scandalous behavior and what that mega conference is really like. We talked about evil trolls lurking in comments, finding advertising, getting paid, Martha Stewart, emails from Silicon Valley Mom Blog competitors, swag bags, and blogging just for the joy of writing and creativity.

When we weren’t talking shop, we talked about overcrowding in public schools, home schooling, property taxes, and medical insurance. We ate pasta, chocolates, scallops wrapped in bacon and salad. Some of us had soda, some of us had wine. And we even had a bit of pampering with professional masseuses in the house (or photo gallery, I should say.)

I think the only thing we didn’t talk about was the girls that didn’t make it. We missed you, friends! :( Next time!

Now without further ado: a few pictures:

From Left to right: Shannon, (astute readers will remember she’s my blog designer), Emily, Suezette. No idea who that chick is on the right, she must be a party crasher. ;)

Vanessa, Liz, Melissa and Jennifer

Stacey, Lynette, Lois

Such a fun time! Thanks to our party sponsors and goody bag contributors: Graco, Suave and Stop and Shop.

Friends, if you ever get a chance to contribute to Silicon Valley Moms Blog in your state or city, seize the opportunity. There is fun and fulfillment in the Lone Ranger blog gig, but seriously, this group thing – Wow!

I believe there is power in community. We write our posts, keep our own blogs, Twitter our own unique lives, but when it comes down to it, we are all moms, and in this special sisterhood that comes from blogging. We have our differences, yet this new way of communicating, via blogs, brings us together. I believe my life is  enriched because of these friendships with women I probably would never have met if not for the New Jersey Moms Blog.

Sniff, sniff. I’m getting a wee bit teary.

I love you, gals, and I’m glad the Lord has placed each of you in my life.

Sob.

*Monica goes in search of tissue to mop up keyboard, but gets distracted by chocolate.*

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Actually, I was estatic just to find the place after getting lost in a monsoon-like rain storm. Google maps, why do you hate me so? Don’t ask me about how long it took me to get home, I’m too ashamed of my poor navigaton skills. Note to self: must acquire sattelite map app for cell, ASAP.

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A mother’s tale for our financial times

By Monica Brand, 30 September, 2008, No Comment

True story ahead. I suspect it’s your story too.

Needs vs. wants: failing banks, falling stocks, and  a crisis among the clothing

Follow the link to read the rest at New Jersey Moms Blog.

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Life with boys: smashing, bashing and other uncivilized behavior

By Monica Brand, 28 August, 2008, 4 Comments

My latest at New Jersey Moms Blog:

I don’t understand the male mind.

I have two boys and two girls. My girls I get, I know where they are coming from, we are connected in the sisterhood of femaleness. When Susan wants to be alone, doesn’t want me to see what she’s writing or wants the kitchen free to make coffee cake without me watching, I get it. When her little sister cuddles her baby doll and stuffed animals, carrying them around the house as their mommy, I understand that too. I see myself in their actions.

But do I relate to my boys? Not so much. Boys are a mystery. The thought processes leading them into their crazy tricks- where does it come from?

To read the rest of the post follow this link. If you have boys, I’d love to read your comments.

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Lady of the flies: post at New Jersey Moms Blog

By Monica Brand, 18 August, 2008, No Comment

Two black flies occupy my house right now. My children brought them home, inviting them to stay with a wide open front door. “Shut the door!” my constant call of the summer. I’ve tried hunting down the flies like I’m on an African bug safari, but these insects are of superior intelligence. And fast.

This is just a part of my latest post at New Jersey Moms Blog. Click over to read the rest.

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