My first Compassion International advocate presentation: An unexpected lesson

And the lesson was learned by me.

Yesterday, as I packed the things I would need for the Vacation Bible School I was going to today, my eldest, Susan, asked to tag along.

At first, I didn’t think it a good idea.

I didn’t want to be a mom on duty, I just wanted to be an Advocate talking about children living in extreme poverty. I wanted the drive down to be a mental break from the house and all it’s craziness. And I guess part of me thought she would get in the way. She’s ten. It’s way better than a toddler, but still she has her moments of silliness.

But as she tried on a sarong I planned to bring as a prop, I couldn’t help but say yes.

Susan did great modeling the sarong, quick to jump up next to me at her cue, with no fear of standing in front a group of strange kids. She wore the Indonesian sun hat with pride. The best part of all: Susan watched her mommy talk passionately about children that need help, children living in a world she has only seen in a book or on DVD.

I wrote recently how I want to find opportunities for my children to learn about justice and helping others, so to almost miss this kid-friendly chance leaves me disappointed with myself. I need to stop thinking of Susan as a little girl, but as a young lady who can participate in ministry along side me.

A series of unrelated thoughts

Random thoughts…

  • Susan is ten years old as of last week. She’s growing into a young lady, so blogging about her is tricky territory now. Excellent blog fodder, the potential for humor and witty snark abound. But she knows how to work the Google, and knows mom has this paperbridges.net thing going on, so no cute tween changing body stories about her.
  • Doc – a man with a vision – is plotting and scheming. I’m just a wife who wants security with a modest shoe budget. That’s all I can say about that right now.
  • My back porch project is moving sloooowly. I decided to extend the porch by adding on a stone patio. Doc wants to do it too, but more work and more time to get it done.
  • Lucy is making me crazy. Apparently I need to be in the same room with her as she poops and pees, forcing me to stop what I’m doing to watch. I’ve tried ignoring her, only to be rewarded with a lake of pee on the bathroom floor. Yes, I said Lake Pee.
  • My first Compassion International presentation is scheduled for July 17 at a Vacation Bible School in Princeton. Starting to feel the pressure of not screwing it up. Thankfully the kids I’m speaking to are… kids. A forgiving audience, in my experience with working with kids. Of course, I want to complicate things by making my own Poverty Wheel, making the talk all hands on and stuff, but at this late date I may have to go with simple.
  • If I can’t get to Blogher, I want to go to GodBlogCon in September. Anyone else going? I’d love to meet you in person. I’m not sure how it’s mom friendly, but I can pretend I’m professional enough to hang with the movers and shakers of the godblogosphere.
  • Last night I dreamt of dropping the kids into public school. Literally. I walked in a classroom, sat them at a table and walked out the door. I spent the rest of the dream arguing with myself, What the heck are you doing? Go get them! The guilt, the internal conflict, that feeling of panic – all too real.
  • Book giveaway time again – but you have to come back tomorrow.

Enjoy your Monday. It’s rainy here and I must go to that shiny (un)happy place were I can do the modern day version of hunting and gathering. Fun and excitement, eh?

Justice in the Burbs: Being the Hands of Jesus Where You Live by Will and Lisa Samson

Justice in the Burbs: Being the Hands of Jesus Where You Live by Will and Lisa Samson

Leave it to Lisa Samson to make a heavy subject an entertaining read.

Justice is a topic I’ve been hearing more and more lately in Christian circles, so it didn’t surprise me when Lisa, with her husband Will, wrote a book on the subject. The best part of the book: the characters the facts are hung on. So instead of a dry read, we follow how a Christian family finds their way into helping the less fortunate, out of the box of the church, transforming their lives in the process.

Having said that, this is not a comfortable read, especially if you are into all that big spending, over living, over commit yourself mindset. The scene about Habitat Humanity house building without a mainline church volunteer represented – that got my Irish up, but not enough to make me stop reading. And I admit the point was made – we are good at helping our own church body, yet often fail to help where the work is already under way with another (shocking! secular) organization.

Teaching justice to children

I read this book not only as a Christian interested in social issues, but as a mom looking to teach her kids how to be sensitive to these types of situations. As a mother, it’s my ultimate goal to raise my children into adults who care for others. I’m always looking for good ideas and at the end of the book several practical steps are offered to help a regular church goer like myself to do justice to others.

I don’t have to look very far to find an example for my children. Just the act of attending church for us is a lesson in justice and caring for others.

There is a boy at church with autism. I find myself frequently reminding my children to look out for him, especially when his older brother does that big brother thing and tries to bully him. Brothers will be brothers, autism or not.

I tell my children that when they see that boy not understanding how to play a game or when he cries easily with frustration, don’t be quick to judge. Show patience and love, take the road no one else walks and be his friend.

I’m not sure my boys get it yet. My boys are still competitive with each other, so to make them understand compassion and mercy to this autistic boy is hit and miss. Yet I have to try. I think of Will and Lisa Samson’s book and I know I have to start somewhere. What better place than on the playground with their own peers?

An opportunity to help

I was pleased to read in the resource section in the back of the book a plug for Compassion International, an organization I’m involved with, and one that has recently jumped on the blogging bandwagon. (What a great way to educate believers on the work of Compassion International; the power of blogging at it’s finest.)

As you are probably aware, there is a food crisis in the world today. People are starving because of lack of food and now going hungry because they simply can’t afford to buy it. Where is the justice is this situation? Compassion International is on the attack with a prayer and fasting campaign set for this Wednesday, June 25. Right now you can sign up to participate on behalf of suffering children around the world. I urge you to do so and share this story with your children. It’s an excellent opportunity to teach them about the world and the suffering in it.

Links

Compassional International Day of Prayer and Fasting

Lisa Samson’s website

Other posts about Lisa’s books:

Consuming Summer: Quaker Summer by Lisa Samson

Boy, Do I Feel Foolish

Love Now

© 2008 Monica Brand | Paper Bridges